What is a personality?
Personality is a way of
behaving, expressing which includes emotions, attitude and mood. Personality is
a behavioral characteristic of a person. There are many definitions of
personality including “Personality is behaving in a particular way in variety
of situations.” Personality falls under category psychology. Personality traits
include body, expression, behavior and appearance.
Reading people is a
psychology and a skill that anyone can achieve. They are tiny things but
it will really help you know the person well. Here is more than just first
impression of a person. It will help you find people with good character.
People often judge another person by their appearance but not behavior. You're
wrong if you do that! When you meet someone for the first time, there are some
of the tips that would help you determine the person’s nature.
How they walk
How people walk or stand
defines a lot about people’s personality. A person who drags feet while walking
lack energy or they maybe sad. A person who thinks while walking are day
dreamers. They’re lost in their own world. A person who walks heavy steps is the
short tempered one. They have childish nature. The person who walks slowly and
calmly is the lively one. They are relaxed and they enjoy their life.
How they argue
Arguments arises when
there are insecurities and threat communications. An argument becomes even
harsh if both parties try to defend themselves. When you’re having arguments
with people, how do you react to that? Do you attack the person or the problem?
People who try to solve the problems without harming next ones feelings are the
positive type people.
How they react to plan
change
Change is
uncertain, but it definitely generates a reaction. Sometimes plans get changed
due to unfavorable situations. How people reacts upon plan change determines
whether they’re flexible or rigid. Well both aren’t bad but it depends on what
personality works on you.
Eye contact
Are you making an eye
contact or are you avoiding it? Shy people mostly avoid eye contacts to keep
away from difficulties. However when people are okay with eye contact but they
avoid conversations, they’re often lying. A confident person is someone who
makes a good eye contact and is comfortable with conversations. But in some
cultures, looking straight into the eye is considered rude and threatening.
Body language
Body language is the most
powerful tool to understand the person’s behavior. It includes facial
expression, gestures, postures and eye expressions. How a person sit, or how
much they use their hands to portray something tells a lot about a person.
We easily understand their moods via facial expressions. Open posture while
sitting indicates openness and friendly people.
Punctuality
Punctuality is important
trait that defines a person. It is not only necessary to become a good person
but it also contributes in bright future. Notice how much effort people give to
be on time. A punctual person is systematic and planned. They sleep and get up
at right time. They’re disciplined about their work. But latecomers don’t
possess any of these qualities. Punctuality is a discipline which every person
should definitely have within them. I personally feel punctuality is the most
important trait amongst all.
Biting nails
Research suggests that
people who bite their nail tend to be perfectionist and organized. Also people
who are impatient or frustrated are more likely to bite their nails. When
people are unable to relax, they bite nails. There are people who assume that
nail biting has something to do with anxiety and depression, but no it's not.
Taste of music
People who listen to
complex music genres are likely to get open up with new experiences.
Whereas people who like listening upbeat jams are more extroverted. People
who listen classical music are likely to be creative. Music tastes describe
what a person’s personality is. The factors that play a huge role in
determining a person's music taste depend on their age, gender and cultural
background. Music is also very important in the get to know each other
conversation. But there aren't any music that describes a bad personality.
Frankness
People who are frank are
the type of person that enjoy adventure and who takes risks. These people enjoy experiencing and they are curious to learn new. But the person who is just
opposite to being open is somehow introverts. They want to be reserved and they
are mostly happy in their world. They avoid socialization and aren’t curious to
learn.
How frequent they get
angry
Personality can also be
guessed on how much a person gets angry. And how do they show their anger? Physically
or mentally? Everyone gets angry when things go wrong and it is totally normal.
But if a person gets angry on small things very frequently, you should probably
stay away from them. This behavior states that the person is aggressive in
nature.
How kind they are
If someone is helping a
person, we definitely know the person’s character right? How much they are
involved in social works and how much they are considerate can definitely tell
a lot about a person’s personality. Never believe in people who are only good
in words. Remember these kinds of people can not do anything except gossiping.
How frequent do they use
phone
People who are always on
their phone have on idea about what is going on in real life. They are often
fantasy kind of people. They think what they are in social media is exactly
their real life personality. Whereas people who use their phone for a limited
time, are the real ones. They are more involved in real life rather the social
media world.
To end, these traits may
not be applicable for every type of person because a person gets personality
changes on how tough phase they have been through. Thankyou for your interest in
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