You have goals, but can't reach the destination? here's why

 

Discipline is the bridge between goals and achievement. Your goals are only gonna get fulfilled if you remain disciplined. Is there a goal you can’t accomplish? Maybe you know the way but aren’t able to achieve it? Changes take time.

The main reason why you aren’t reaching the destination is because of hurry. Then you get frustrated. That happens to many people because they lack discipline in them. Everyone has dreams; but many can not achieve. There are many reasons behind it. If you have a dream and you’re ambitious about it, then this blog is definitely for you.

Let’s start with the definition of discipline.

Discipline is simply controlling yourself and doing what you should be doing. Self discipline is getting out of our comfort zone and going beyond your abilities. When you stick to your level of comfort, there are chances of you not achieving your goals.in every field you work, discipline is very important. Studies have shown that people with self discipline eat less, avoid alcohol, exercise more and spend less time in social Medias.

Here are strategies on how to stay disciplined.

Get a goal

If you have a proper goal, then you should just focus on implementing it. But for implementation, you should define the goal and stay self disciplined. Do not get distracted by things. Just focus that have to achieve goal and that’s it. For example you want to loose weight, so for that you’ll make a 30day challenge and you’ll stick to it. There’ll be no cheat days. And when you’ll be completed with it, you will be extremely satisfied. There are times when you may feel demotivated, at that times just think about your goal and the effects on you if you’re not completing it. So, just go for it.

Stay motivated

As I have mentioned before, there are times when you want to achieve goals but you’re not motivated. At that time, I prefer you watching Tedtalks. When you’re not motivated you can’t achieve. To achieve your purpose, motivation has a great role. When you’re motivated, you can make your dream real. Motivation also improves efficiency and productivity. There is also a saying, “Motivation is the key to success.”

Start small

After starting, don’t quit. Change takes time, its not about hours or days; it takes years.  But even when you start slow, there are chances of you to getting closer to the achievement. For example you took a workout challenge for a month then start a five minute workout in the first day. Then upgrade to 15-20 minutes after a week. When you’re on the last week, try a 30 minutes workout. It is as easy as you see it. Just start, no matter what the result will be. If you’re going on a right direction, you will definitely lead to big results.

Create habit

Start creating habit. The more you learn, the more you get creative. I’ve mentioned above about the workout routine, make it a habit. Don’t be irregular. Making a day routine would do. Make routine and follow it strictly. In our sub-conscious mind, habits are stored. If we follow a proper routine for many days, we’ll be surely used to it after then.

Small steps

What we do is we set a goal and that’s it. But setting a goal only won’t work. Don’t set the bars too high. Take small steps in the beginning and celebrate small victories. We are always in hurry to achieve; it won’t work. Changes take time so moving small steps would do better rather than jumping to the last step.

Don’t give up

The main problem about us is we give up if we even make a small mistake. Impatience is what is stopping you from reaching the goal. Your efforts should never get wasted. If you work hard, you will definitely see the results. It takes time to achieve so even if you make mistake, get up and work 2x times harder. You just need to stick to your goals no matter what happens.

Mistake not failure

Mostly, what happens is when you make mistake, you view it as a failure; and you give up. That is what an obstacle for you to reach the destination is. No one is perfect, everyone makes mistakes. You should learn from your mistakes and step up. When you step back, it means you’re going close to failure. Remember that things go wrong sometimes and it’s totally okay.

Make the goal a first priority

When you’re done setting a goal, get more time to understand your goal. If you even make the goal second priority, you have chances to face failure. It is very easy to say reaching destination; but the work behind it is tough. So, it is better to take more time for your goal rather than other activities. Make sure that you give enough time to your goal.

Don’t underestimate yourself

When you aren’t sure whether you can achieve or not, you will fail. Setting a goal is very easy but but sticking to it is hard. And don’t become overconfident on your skills.  Remind yourself about why is it important for you to reach the destination and why shouldn’t give up now. You need to work hard even if you already possess the skills.

Be nice to yourself

Changes are difficult. Get motivated and don’t let any obstacle block your way to success. Also, you may fail but don’t give up whatever happens.  New habit would be difficult at first but remember nothing lasts forever. When you’ve already committed, give your 200 percent on it. If you fail, forgive yourself. You’re too a human, and no human is perfect. You make mistakes, you get up, you achieve.

This is all about the topic. People who are ambitious about their achievement and passions will definitely follow these things. If my blog has made any impacts on you, please let me know. Also if you have other good ideas to stay disciplined, do share with me on shakyaaloyana@gmail.com

 Have a wonderful day!!