Dear whoever is reading this,
The first thing I want to say is, don’t compare yourself with other people. This is an age of social media where youths tend to show their accomplishments, celebration, and almost everything. Making comparisons with other people is easy these days because of every information that is available 24/7. People show off their cars, houses, relationships on social media. We think that likes and followers are what are important in life. I was also into these some time ago, but now I understand; it’s a trap.
It’s all up to you how you deal with people’s pictures and followers. Comparing with people I don’t think is a bad thing. You keep yourselves in other's place and you realize what you’re lacking. Sometimes is okay to compare yourself unintentionally, but stop comparing constantly like every minute. Believe in yourself and your potential to perform things.
Now, the next thing here is, you are responsible for your happiness. This sounds easy but in reality, it’s really difficult to achieve. It is your perception and the way you perceive a situation. Not anyone except you is responsible for your happiness. Mostly what people do is, search for people who can make them happy; but no one except you can make you happy.
Also, Life is all about success and hardships, happiness and sadness. When you can accept joyful and positive situations so well, why do you fear facing challenges? This is life and you’ll only be successful if you accept the uncomfortable.
Don’t be afraid to accept change. Just look at you, someone who is ambitious, full of dreams. I am being honest, if you prefer to stay inside your comfort zone; you’re never going to succeed in life. I am not being rude here; everything I just told is a hard reality.
So now, you might be facing challenges right now, some may have a career problem while some may be having any lifestyle problem. Do you know what the problem is? The problem is your mindset, not your life. TMKOC says,” problem toh hai sabke saath bas najar ye ki hai baat”. And I couldn’t agree more with this. This line simply means everyone has their own problems, change your perception and life will be awesome.
I think I don’t have to remind you that you’re strong. The one who fights challenges is a real hero. You might fail, you might not succeed at first, but one day you are gonna achieve things. For everything, you do in life, All the Best.
With all respect,
Aloyana